You are in charge of your own life! Whatever YOU think YOU create. If you don't like your life at the moment, then Change YOUR thoughts. We are all one, connected to each other not separate as you believe. Everyone in your life is your mirror reflection. If you are challenged by any person or situation then step back, thank the person for showing YOU what you need to change about yourself. Once you see YOURSELF and make the changes within, that challenge will disappear!